How do I start the conversation?
with my loved one, partner, friend or family member who has problems with gambling?
It can have a positive influence if you start a conversation with your loved one. Yet we understand that this can be difficult, a bit scary or frustrating. We would like to give you some conversation tips.
TIP 1/7
Start the conversation clearly and prepare for it. Write down what you want to say
TIP 2/7
Try to not be to emotional or angry
TIP 3/7
Discuss the reason for the conversation
TIP 4/7
Discuss what benefits the other person gets from gambling
TIP 5/7
Discuss what disadvantages you experience because the other person gambles
TIP 6/7
Discuss what changes you would like to see
TIP 7/7
Make clear and absolute agreements
We hope that these tips help you have a good and constructive conversation.
Is it not working, or do you find it too exciting to start the conversation? You can also contact specialized healthcare institutions. They can then have an exploratory conversation with you and your loved one, if your loved one is open to this. Your loved one must therefore give permission for this.
NB!
A consultation with a healthcare institution is not always free, but can often be declared at your health insurance. If you would like to have a conversation with a mental healthcare professional you must first make an appointment with your GP. Your GP has to refer you.
Your GP has a duty of confidentiality. If you do not want your loved one to know about this appointment, you do not have to worry.